We have nothing in common. I know that for some time we are going to feel emptiness and a dull pain, but still a pain. But if we had many things in common, the break up would not be that easy. That would have destroyed us like a hurricane, leaving only emptiness and bitterness. We should be thankful for that.
It is sad but true: nothing lasts forever. In most cases the separation causes heartache, depression, disease, torment, and other negative emotions. Do not fear to face the truth. If your feelings are not the same anymore, and your relationship is nothing more than a habit, you should know that it is time to separate. Unfortunately.
I know that wounds, given by people we love, hurt more. I know that we won’t forget these wounds forever. But what can we do? After all, we don’t suffer because of break up but because of the feeling of irreparable loss. It is sad, but true.
I do not want to break up with you after suffering an affront or betrayal. In this situation people get so obsessed with their own suffering that make the parting too painful, much more painful that their partners deserve. I don’t want to do that. So, let’s part without tears and words.
I want us to break up without offending and humiliating each other. We both deserve that. It will hurt for a while but we need to go on and do that with dignity. I can’t give you what you want.
Parting is a little death. No matter who took this meaningless and cruel decision, parting forever is always unpleasant and always hurts. Parting is a love killer. We have to do our best to make it less painful.
Parting is a pain of loss. Not only for you, but for the people you care about as well. They also have lost something since your love used to give them confidence and hope for the future. They rejoiced with you and wept with you. Now the loss is not only yours, but theirs also.
Parting is a hidden sadness of the heart. Someday in the future, you may try to do the things right, you can foolishly hope for an impossible miracle, because if it happens, that means there was no separation at all. It was only a long parting. Nevertheless, it does not hurt less.
Separation is forever. No matter what they say, the separation is long, sad, exhausting and devastating the heart. It can destroy one’s life once and forever. After separation you won’t be the same. Ever.
When we separate, we feel our own grief and our own pain. But we also start hating ourselves because we have committed some kind of murder and that is unforgiving.
How can we reduce the pain of separation forever? Or the bitterness of the terrible disappointment? Sad memories will remain for life. You’ll always feel the bitter taste of loss, frustration, and betrayed trust. Will you be able to love again?
You want to cry, but you hold back your tears. You want to tell everything to someone, but you are silent. Believe me, my friend, after separation you will never live the way you lived before. Do you think it is possible to avoid this suffering and pain? Certainly not.
Many of us try to forget separation and refuse to face the truth. This way they suffer even more. Very often suffering paralyzes our will and to overcome such a state requires a lot of energy. I know that there will be a moment when you’d like to run away from it all. Don’t do it. Just think and you’ll find out the way out.
The first days after separation you think that the life is a nightmare, you want to sleep and never wake up. Your mind refuses to accept the separation with your dearly beloved. Then comes the depression. You can’t think clearly and understand what has happened. Most likely, you lose the desire to do anything.
We have all experienced the pain of separation, we all know how the despair tears your soul and makes us think we can’t go on and the only question we can think of is: “Why?“ This is the time you need to fight for yourself. This is the time you need to be strong, to survive and go on no matter what!
